tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8409496201843798172.post2938649491326361145..comments2023-04-28T07:09:06.363-07:00Comments on lily loves mac: Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16968336434833647010noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8409496201843798172.post-56723738122141287082008-07-10T15:29:00.000-07:002008-07-10T15:29:00.000-07:00That's too bad what you're going through. You sho...That's too bad what you're going through. You should definitely have a serious conversation with him regarding your feelings. Keep in mind the 3 avoidable "C": complain, compare, and criticism. I'm not saying that's what you're doing but sometime when we care too much, the other person may not realize it and just consider everything we're saying as plain tart: annoying! I hope everything will work out for you =)Cinthia Truonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11369638387350948151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8409496201843798172.post-46026123496210067932008-07-09T11:25:00.000-07:002008-07-09T11:25:00.000-07:00my boyfriend used to be like that, and I HATED it....my boyfriend used to be like that, and I HATED it. his friends were dumb and immature. we grew up, we're both finishing college soon, starting out successful careers got our own apartment etc., and his friends never did ANYTHING with their lives. they all still live at home and do nothing but play video games and they're already in their mid 20s. my boyfriend always tells me that I raised the bar and he's so much better off with me than with those losers. So don't worry, as he and you mature, he will see what is really important for the future. Guys just need to be immature for awhile!Yellow Feverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03407921299659462476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8409496201843798172.post-69878497895696358942008-07-08T21:13:00.000-07:002008-07-08T21:13:00.000-07:00awww thanks. hehe. you best join!awww thanks. hehe. you best join!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8409496201843798172.post-64732334179230624392008-07-08T18:28:00.000-07:002008-07-08T18:28:00.000-07:00sorry girl *hugs* I am so sorry with what you're g...sorry girl *hugs* I am so sorry with what you're going through, i won't be able to sleep myself..i don't like it when guys doesn't talk about issues, they just want to just ask us to "forget about it.." we can't! we're not like robots who can just switch on and off our thoughts...I hope things gets better...hold up..be strong! Try to keep yourself busy so you won't think much about this!AskMeWhatshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12359673503017616620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8409496201843798172.post-3085644988243105272008-07-08T14:08:00.000-07:002008-07-08T14:08:00.000-07:00omg i SOOO understand how u feel cuz i had a simil...omg i SOOO understand how u feel cuz i had a similar fight with my bf just last night! well my bf didn't do things that i did not like but it's just that he doesnt seem to understand why i need so much attention and affection either... sigh...<BR/>anyways i am sure we both will feel better!! :) cheer up girl!Stephyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08734342732553637480noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8409496201843798172.post-57064159572992763922008-07-08T11:54:00.000-07:002008-07-08T11:54:00.000-07:00The reason why I said not to bring up the ex is mo...The reason why I said not to bring up the ex is most, including females, don't like hearing about their mate's exes. It's just a conversation you don't really talk about unless the other person doesn't mind. Can you say something like this is how I've been feeling when you've been going out without me, as well as, feeling worried waiting at home? If he's a compassionate boyfriend, he should be able to understand where you're coming from. Then from there try to compromise to a medium where you give in some, as well as, him.Ahleessahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12197712138269330386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8409496201843798172.post-44034581108024171082008-07-08T11:37:00.000-07:002008-07-08T11:37:00.000-07:00I wish i could say something reassuring but i have...I wish i could say something reassuring but i have no experience..<BR/>I agree with Alyssa. Maybe he cringes whenever he hears about your ex because men can be territorial and he doesn't want you to imagine you with the ex....Aminahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15706836513100830763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8409496201843798172.post-17071152148222876412008-07-08T09:48:00.000-07:002008-07-08T09:48:00.000-07:00You're not being selfish. You're just feeling like...You're not being selfish. You're just feeling like that because you really do care for him. I really don't knw what kinda advice I can give you in this situation cuz I have never had a boyfriend before. lol My parents are always like, wait til college. I don't really care about that, but I just haven't found the guy who feels the same way. You know? lol and I never knew you have contacts! lol I just got mines last week, and I'm on my 1 week trial thing... lolEricahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09990865928004083768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8409496201843798172.post-18098648249829719552008-07-08T09:23:00.000-07:002008-07-08T09:23:00.000-07:00The way you're feeling makes a lot of sense. I wo...The way you're feeling makes a lot of sense. I would feel the same if I was in your shoes *huggles*. Can you tell him how you feel without bringing up the ex?Ahleessahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12197712138269330386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8409496201843798172.post-6284976771203319682008-07-08T08:53:00.000-07:002008-07-08T08:53:00.000-07:00omg...that was same with me and my ex, i met like ...omg...that was same with me and my ex, i met like 3 of his close friends, and then beyond that...ha, and we were also together for about 2 years. i think it's justifiable that you should be worried about him, especially if he drinks. i had a best friend who not long ago passed away in a car accident due to alcohol. so if your man really cares about you, you would take your thoughts into consideration, just try to explain it, in the past i just kinda complained and guys don't like that. :) hope everything gets better!Makeupfairytalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00881702310922095562noreply@blogger.com